There is no antidote

So I actually thought that for once at my house I could stay here for the entirety of a break and not want to leave back early...I am still hoping that can happen this week. My family I feel is in itself a cry out for attention, especially my younger bro. It amazes me how we can grow up in the same environment and come out as such different people- foils even. What's even harder is me getting across how I want him to succeed and do well without him seeing it as me telling him to be more like me. I don't want him to be me! I have enough problems as it is and would hate to wish them upon him, but what I want is for him to have choices, opportunities to get away from such a toxic environment. Don't get me wrong, I am having a blast this break with my friends- I always do. But, I really want to gain more experiences with my family. God will you continue to work in their lives, it almost seems as things have reverted and that really scares me. Lord open the eyes of my parents a

Spring break is right around the corner! I just have one more final left tomorrow and then I can say goodbye to this winter quarter. I can't believe how much fun I had this quarter especially with the rep winter quarters have had in my past lol. Its strange to think how fast these 11 weeks flew by yet at the same time were so full of memorable moments and experiences that I am going to carry with me...Seriously, all that happened this quarter was only in 11 weeks! It's ridiculous. Some things that I am for sure taking away from this quarter: Trust God more. I feel like there are still plenty of barriers that I set up for myself because I'm afraid that God won't come through, but if I never give him the opportunity to come through, why would he? So I need to take more risks and actively seek his power in my life! be vulnerable. (enough said on that in the last blog) an extension on to that would also be that I am in the process of learning to acknowledge my problem areas

I think I would consider myself privileged. I could have a horrible situation eating and tearing away at me, but also have friends and people that care about me to ameliorate that pain within a matter of minutes. Literally phone calls/texts/ minutes away. It makes me wonder, How people without those friends get by? I think out of a vulnerability with other people you learn to minimize the judgment that you may at one point have had in your heart. I feel like if there was someone with a problem whether it be an addiction or domestic issue or academic issue, I feel as though I wouldn't cast judgment on them anymore- not like I used to anyway. Its amazing what pains God can pull out of your life. I bring this up because I have been constantly feeling judged and treated poorly for the past couple of weeks, but because I have friends to lift that off my shoulders the judgment doesn't sting like it was intended to do. Being vulnerable is like a member of my arsenal I feel that as lon